The media's image of Black women is not a good one. We are either seen as objects of lust and desire, video vixens or modern day Jezebel’s, or the single mother trying to raise her children on paycheck made for a single person, modern day Mammies. My question is, where are the average Black women? The ones who have a college education, a well-paying job, a husband, and children. Where is she? Why are all the images that see of Black women negative or something unattainable like being the next Beyonce or Rihanna? I am not saying that being a singer is unattainable career, I am just saying not everyone can sign a 40 million dollar contract. I feel that as Black women and children, we should aspire to be more than what we see on television. We should look past the Beyonce’s and the Rihanna’s and the Jennifer Hudson’s and find other successful Black women. We should dream about discovering the next star as an astronomer rather than trying to be the next “star” discovered. There are so many opportunities out there for us, we just need to find them. With that said, the only way we can find these opportunities is if we become literate. We as a people are so strong that I know we can do this. We have sat by and let our men deteriorate and become an “endangered species (Richardson, 8)," we cannot have this for ourselves. We must become literate and reach our full potential.
“The idea that the Black woman had to sacrifice herself for the greater good of the race has had both positive and negative ramifications. Even black men began to accept prevailing beliefs that Black women should sacrifice for and nurture the race. Women were to leave the hard stuff to the men. We continue to see this opinion in effect today, and society’s consistent subordination of women’s own ideals has left a particularly negative impact on the Black woman. (Darling, 18)"
“The Black woman represents strength and endurance, yet she also represents what we consider to be at risk and poverty. Oxymoronic as these concepts are, she represents them all. She occupies a tier of society that binds us all, yet she is the most ignored within the structure of society. Because she represents aspects of our being that many wish ignore, she is then overlooked. (Darling, 15)" We as Black women have to make an effort to change these views, so that they will not be all that we stand for.